I recently noticed something in the way Arabs name their
children compared to what we do here in Africa. They Use "Al"
"El" as a "pre" to their names which could mean "a
member of the house of " or Fair, handsome, noble, bright (in English) etc but here in certain parts of Africa, especially where I
come from, a part where religion is overly scented, we use "Abd"
which means Slave, Servant etc. The Arabs don't give their children English
or Western names, they don't call their children slaves instead they connect
every of their offspring with his/her origin with "Al' prefix. They hold
their cultures, values and traditions in high esteem and stretch to preserve
it, but we in Africa are quick to not only eschew who we really are, but to also
trade our identity on the altar of religion, damning ourselves as slaves in the
name of religion and not God.
If we must betray our true identity, why are we calling
ourselves slaves when the people that brought the religion to Africa preserve their
own name, culture, values and tradition? Tell me, which of these names sounds
better; Al Farouq or Abdul Farouq (The Son of Farouq or Slave Farouq) with its
true meaning? Someone should please tell me, why do we choose to be slaves to
everything (Religion, Western Culture, Arab Culture, God and Men) when we could
be kings.. Why are the owners of the religion not calling each other slaves but
we gladly do, why do we now choose to be addressed as slaves?
If you give birth to a child and christen the child a slave,
immerse him/her in the dictates of religion instead of God and give the child a
personality that makes him/her less than human, why won't such a child grow up
delusional?
It is not even strange for you to see people throw away
their identity in the name of religion. I remember my Chemistry teacher in
secondary school changed his name from "Sangoleye" to "Jesuleye",
I am still thinking what effect the new name had on him because the last time I
heard about him, he was still teaching Chemistry. Some people even travel to
Europe or America from Africa and within a week, their tongue is twisted and
they pretend to have forgotten their mother tongue. Some blame it on
inferiority complex, others call it blending-in but I think it's more about not
realizing the true value of our identity as African, and the beauty of who we
are. I know people of African heritage that were born and raised in Europe and
America and could speak Ijebu, Igbo etc fluently, so I wonder why the ones that
were raised on this side of the sun are eager to throw away their identity.
I get irritated when I meet people and they ask "What
is your Christian or Muslim name?" sometimes I just wonder which part of
their brain is not functioning; and the good thing is that I always have a
perfect answer for them, "My name
is Babaolowo" I am sure that name is not only Christian and Islamic,
it has a perfect interpretation in all languages of the world.
I'm still waiting to meet an Arab or Emirati named "Abdul"
in the UAE in all my years of visiting the region.. All the people I have been
lucky to meet here have a handsome "Al" as a pre, it gives me hope
that I will soon be chilling with an Al Maktoum soonest but in the interim, you
can call me Al Farouq Bin Babaolowo.
2 comments:
i do not have a problem with your identity but i'd like to correct a notion you have some what preconceived which is "...damning ourselves as slaves in the name of religion and not God"
yes you are right "Abd" means "Slave of" but one major thing you did not consider is the other half of the "Abd" name for instance, you'll have people bear names as "Abdu-r-Rahman", "Abdul-Lateef" etc the point here is that it is only Allah names that are prefixed with "Abd" for whoever intends to make use of it as a name. this is because the other half of the name (for instance Abdu-r-Rahman in this case Rahman) belongs solely to Allah because He is the most merciful and we as humans are nothing but His slaves bound to do His will. whoever want to make use of such name will always out the "Abd" before it to make reference that he is nothing but the servant of Allah.
Yes, we as muslims are more than proud to be called servant of Allah any day and any time. This is submitting to the one and only God. we will forever be His slaves
Thanks for your comment anonymous... Al Farouq Bin Babaolowo understands you perfectly
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